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A WWII Memory

Whenever I have the search opportunity in a paper that is not local I enter my last name for no reason other than because I can. So a couple of weeks ago I was searching in the archives of the Hartford Courant for something completely unrelated and uncovered the following January 4, 1968 and January 8, 1968 story written by Richard D. McNeill for the Hartford Courant.

My father died in 1983. His WWII stories centered about the trucks he drove, the pranks and trouble he and his buddies got in to. Every few years there would be a reunion and the stories would be retold. As time passed, there were fewer stories of the war and more about future plans, their families, their children and grandchildren. I still exchange holiday cards with some of the other “children.” We never discuss our fathers stories. The stories were theirs to tell, not ours.

Anyway, this newspaper article was a memory that I can only vaguely remember. My grateful thanks to Mr. McNeill and the Hartford Courant Corporation for this personal history lesson. I hope you won’t mind if I tell this story mostly from the newspaper article with a few additional memories added. I regret there are a lot of questions that will never be answered.

On December 27, 1967 the phone rang in a Norwich home and a womans voice asked to speak to, “Abe Fishbone.” When he was called to the phone the voice said, “You probably don’t remember me . . “

And Fishbone replied, “As long as any girl remembers me I’m happy.”

The story began twenty-three years earlier and involved a brave seventeen year-old who had out-foxed the Nazis and a three-day stopover. The liberation of World War II concentration camps shed light on some very ugly scenes to Private Abraham Fishbone.

But something beautiful happened in a Herzberg forced labor factory.

Fishbone was with the 38th 91 Quartermaster Truck Company transporting troops of the 1st Division to front line action during the liberation march. When they reached Herzberg in the Hartz mountains just over the Rhine River, he spoke with a member of the Polish underground because he spoke a little Polish, “just enough to get along.”

“I asked if there were any of my people around.” Fishbone said. Then he was told to wait.

Looking around there was a lot of dirt and starving people. The labor factory was made of rows of long, low, wooden quarters that looked like tumble-down chicken coops yet they housed hundreds of humans.

In one of the buildings was a young, pretty and very frightened Dina Klahr.

She and a friend had more to fear than most. They were Jews.

Their parents had been killed in the quiet town of Oleszyce, Poland, just before the girls had run away under falsified passports to escape the ghettos and imminent death there.

The underground agent walked into Dina’s room where she and her friend waited with about 12 other girls. Mrs. Kesten remembers: “He thought we were Jewish and there was a Jewish man outside. I thought you might like to meet him.” he said.

The girls were “excited and happy.” So excited, Fishbone wrote in a letter home, “they actually couldn’t believe it.” “You know how I hate to see women cry, well this lasted for half an hour.” He returned to his camp and the next day brought the girls food and talked with them for a while.

In November 1942 the Jews in Dina’s recently Nazi occupied town were all made to wear white arm bands with the Star of David.

Dina’s mother had obtained a false passport for her. For the next two and a half years everyone but her closest friend, Ruth Lewkowicz, knew her as Eugenia Mikado.

She and Ruth ran away to the big city of Lublin, Poland but there was no work and nowhere else to run. Always in danger of being discovered they still went to the German Labor Department to volunteer for work.

Mrs. Kesten remembered the story she told the officials was something about “my mother had died and my step-mother was no good.”

From Poland she was sent to work in the bomb and mine factory under Nazi rule but was still able to outsmart the enemy. The girls would fix some of the bombs so when they hit they would not explode.

Finally liberation and Pvt. Fishbone came but it was in the wake of bad news. President Roosevelt had died the day before, April 12.

On the third and last meeting of Dina, Ruth and Pvt. Fishbone, Dina recalled the address of an aunt who lived in New York. She asked Fishbone to write and “tell her I’m alive.”

The letter was mailed the next day from some 60 or 70 miles away. He never heard from Dina again until the phone call.

Dina, with “no place to go” and “no future,” left Germany and returned to Poland where she married Abraham Kesten.

On the day after Christmas, in 1958, she came to the United States and ten years later Dina had become Betty and she and her husband owned a poultry farm in Watertown, CT and had two children.

Fishbone’s company was awarded with presidential citations for heroism and bravery in combat.

To my knowlage there was no further communication. No cards. No reliving the memory. Now I am wondering how and why the story was in the newspaper in 1968 when stories of war were not fashionable. What happened to Ruth? Did she ever hear from the Aunt in New York? What was the trigger to make the call? So many questions with no answers.

Thank you all for your service and for working to make all the atrocities of evil, war and pain a memory and not a future.

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Summer Activities

I was excited to see the City of Norwich Summer activity and education offerings. We have a new recreation leader for the first time in years. There would not be a bountiful selection to choose from due to the budget but still the presentation should be fresh and new. I could hardly wait.

Then it came out. The selection is smaller than ever and the old-fashioned comic sized booklet is the same uninformative and dreary presentation it has always been. I have been struck speechless. How could this be? The City Council has poured serious taxpayer dollars into hiring a recreation director with all kinds of credentials and experience yet when given the opportunity to make the changes so desperately begged for in our city. Nothing. Perhaps even a reduction in the services and activities we currently have.

Where are the Adult Education Classes? Where are the activities of the various churches and the athletic leagues? Why do the surrounding towns have a much greater selection? What is their secret? What are they doing that we, with our high priced professional cannot?

The answer has varied a bit, but not nearly as much as one would think. Mostly, the other towns sent out questionaires, some made phone calls and one has a collective committee of various group representatives and an impressive host of volunteers.

Then they collect and organize the information. Some charge fees to the organizations for their participation to cover the printing costs, some found or created sponsors. All of them said it was difficult the first few years but once they realized the how much they depended on each other for participants, generation of new ideas, and activity locations it became easier and it is slowly becoming second nature to pick up a phone and ask if two or more groups or organizations would like to sponsor or participate in a new activity.

What makes it so difficult in Norwich, CT to coordinate a collection of programs being offered to the public by the Department of Recreation, the Athletic Leagues, Adult Education, the Senior Center, NFA, Three Rivers, the varied Houses of Worship, Social Services and Veterans organizations and whatever other groups, services and organizations I have forgotten? Norwich, CT leaders enjoy the feelings of maintaining individual towers of power while their actual programs and facilities languish from misuse, overuse, lack of volunteers and lack of funds generation.

NOW is a very good time to begin making a change. Let’s start by working together. One or two groups at a time. Change cannot only be made, it can be accomplished. WE just need to work together. This is the later and the future that was spoken of in the past. It’s long past time to create the environment we want for our future.

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Time for Liberty Tea

I am in awe of the “all things British” fervor that has taken over the United States or the colonies as they were once known. Even the local historical groups have forgotten that drinking the highly taxed imported tea and sugar was considered to be practically treason during the American Revolution.

So what did those sympathetic to the American patriotic cause drink? Why “Liberty Tea” of course and so can you. The “Liberty Teapot” was restricted only by the season, the household menu and of course the spirit of adventure of the families taste buds.

Today, the only restriction we really have is our taste buds. We can go to tea shops, grocery stores, farmers markets and stands and even our own back yards for a widely varied and delicious selection.

Perhaps a historic group looking for a unique fundraiser would like to sponsor a “Liberty Tea” serving tastes of the varieties of teas once gracing the “Liberty Teapot.” (The Leffingwell House Museum had a tea once with a variety of herbal tea selections gracing the tables.) Or maybe a tasting booth at a local history fair. The teas could be brewed as “sun teas” no heating required, or kept chilled in an ice chest (On a hot day I would welcome four ounces of a fruit tea such as strawberry-mint or perhaps a mix of honey, cucumber and mint.) There was a Portland, Maine company that created a dried mixed leaf tea so tasty that during the American Revolution it replaced the British East India Company teas and was exported tax-free to England. How about a demonstration of making your own healthy and delicious teas at home?

So what flavors of teas could people look forward to tasting? How about mint, strawberry, blueberry, clover, chamomile, fennel, violet, rose, golden rod, willow, sassafras, anise, clove, cucumber and even basil? All are delicious on their own or with their unique flavors enhanced with a light swirl of local honey.

I can even imagine the advertising poster borrowing from a pre-revolutionary war Boston newspaper. A satirical writer wrote that “the fair daughters of liberty” should refrain from drinking tea altogether and stop gathering together. He invited the ladies to, “ASSEMBLE together, HANG the tea-kettle, DRAW the tea and QUARTER the toast.” In my head the tea changes but I imagine cinnamon, sugar and butter but jam, jelly would work nicely too on a slice of freshly baked bread cut into quarters. I wonder who the Boston writer thought did the shopping and maintained the boycotts with creative alternatives. Some of the most zealous women refused to accept callers for themselves or their daughters that were not patriotic sympathizers, while others distributed petitions and gathered anti-tea pledges.

The women of Norwich, CT were no strangers to the fervor of war and extended their generosity with more than just tea and toast but with blankets, clothing, socks and other supplies as needed through the seasons.

Thank you for reading and sharing my history and Norwich Community blog freely with your family or friends or anyone you think might be interested or in a position to take on some of the suggested projects. Don’t hesitate to contact me for further information. I am happy to pass along anything I can. Together we can make a difference. Email comments on this blog to berylfishbone@yahoo.com View my past columns at http://www.norwichbulletin.com/section/blogs.

When Women Register

Sometimes I find the most charming things in the older newspapers. On May 20, 1895 the Norwich Bulletin re-printed this poem from the Detroit Free Press called When Women Register. I can’t even imagine a world where the age claimed by someone registering to vote is the focus of such commentary. I focus more on just getting everyone eligible to vote registered and to the polls on election day.

When the women come to voting
And to giving names and ages,
There’ll be lots of funny capers
On those registration pages.

Whether she’s a Miss or Mrs.
Will annoy the registrars.
Asking won’t be safe – they’d rather
Read the answer in the stars.

As for ages-if the question
Must be asked-the man without
Faith in truthfulness of answers
Had best not display his doubt.

He’ll put down the sweet voiced answers,
Ask not if they’re what they seem,
And, for public satisfaction,
Use perhaps this little scheme: ‘

Mark the age, when “claimed,” in this
way (+)
Each “refused to answer” so (++)
And all ages that are “sworn to”
With three daggers in a row (+++).

Thank you for reading and sharing my history and Norwich Community blog freely with your family or friends or anyone you think might be interested or in a position to take on some of the suggested projects. Don’t hesitate to contact me for further information. I am happy to pass along anything I can. Together we can make a difference. Email comments on this blog to berylfishbone@yahoo.com View my past columns at http://www.norwichbulletin.com/section/blogs.

Happy Mothers Day

It may be Mothers Day on Sunday, May 13,2018 but creating a garden or even just introducing a single plant to the entire household is a wonderful celebration of life. But consider a more non-traditional gift, consider planting a wild flower garden that all can enjoy but does not have to tend. With some help from your local garden center choose some plants and seeds that celebrate heritage. You will also be helping the bird, bee and other helpful critter populations.

For example – An Irish Wild flower garden might have a mix of poppies, sweetpea, wild viola, cornflower, calendula, nasturtiums, baby blue-eyes, maiden pinks, forget-me-nots, snapdragons, clarkia, and baby breath.

Every motorway in Germany has been sewn with a meadow mix of poppies, corn flowers, daisies, yellow rattle, pink nettle, phacelia, roses and red orach.
Lawns are meadows in Poland filled with hay, ox-eyed daisies, meadow buttercups, ragged robin, St. Johns Wort, field poppies, marigolds, dark mullion, and scabious.

Canada is not so far away and so the possibilities are an endless mix of familiar annuals and perennials. Lupin, brown-eyed susans, coreopsis, golden Alexander, New England asters, Wild Indigo Blue, milkweed, Smooth Penstemon, Gay Feather, Eastern Columbine, anything that blooms in red, white, blue, yellow, pink or lavender.

As a Harry Potter fan I loved learning the names of the blooms in the gardens and meadows of Scotland that change with each season. Yarrow, wild thyme, wild strawberries, marjoram, giant bellflower, slender St Johnswort, Devils Bilscabious, cornflower, foxglove, white campion, toad flax, seapink thrift, teasel, tansy, vipers bugloss, water avens, violets, sneeze wort, selfheal, primrose, bluebells, burdock, common knapweed and burdock.

Italian gardens are labor intensive geometric topiaries and shaped greens with few flowers. The hedges are shaped into balls, cones and other shapes that bring interest. If it’s not a hedge there are trees and plants will grow to a huge size in giant container pots. Pergolas will be smothered with fragrant climbers such as wisteria, jasmine, and roses. Around the hedges or perhaps in the center of the perfectly coifed hedge will be lavender or rosemary.

Red geraniums are often the only flower to contrast the green. You will see Bear’s Breeches, Boxwood, Italian Cypress, Eucriphia, Holly, Myrtle, and Yew.
Domestic window boxes are filled with green herbs and the flowers are left to be decorations for the markets. So maybe a small dish garden of herbs might be a great gift that keeps giving throughout the year?

Have a happy day all!

Thank you for reading and sharing my blog freely with your family or friends or anyone you think might be interested or in a position to take on some of the suggested projects. Don’t hesitate to contact me for further information. I am happy to pass along anything I can. Together we can make a difference. Email comments on this blog to berylfishbone@yahoo.com View my past columns at http://www.norwichbulletin.com/section/blogs

National Public Garden Day

Are you aware that Friday, May 11, 2018 is a holiday? Not a day off holiday but a holiday none-the-less. It is National Public Gardens Day!

This delightful holiday begun in 2009 was started with a partnership with Rain Bird as a way to bring local and national exposure to to the the “importance of building vibrant, relevant gardens committed to community enrichment and environmental responsibility through community engagement, sustainable practices and conversation.”

While Norwich, CT does not go out of its way to participate in this national holiday, I’d like to remind everyone that the Norwich Memorial Rose Garden is open 365 days of the year with no admission or fees. The garden is well and lovingly maintained with much deserved pride by the Norwich Department of Public Works.

The now annual tradition of celebrating public gardens takes place each year on the Friday before Mother’s Day weekend with the intent to raise the awareness of public gardens and the important role they play in our communities and on a global scale.

More than 30 years ago Norwich concert bands played beneath the cover of the gazebo while the audience strolled among the rows of rose bushes or sat on chairs they had brought with them. The acoustic without benefit of electric enhancement were fine for us all. I am lucky to have a sound memory of a Spanish guitar being played there that I wish I could share with you all. It was truly lovely.

Please take advantage of our Norwich Memorial Rose Garden by taking a stroll through the rows. Check out the buds and the blooms and the scents. Read about the men and women who are remembered with the small plaques on the many beds. If you play an instrument, please take advantage of the amazing acoustics that are available there without benefit of electricity. It’s a wonderful place to create a lasting memory.

Thank you for reading and sharing my history and Norwich Community blog freely with your family or friends or anyone you think might be interested or in a position to take on some of the suggested projects. Don’t hesitate to contact me for further information. I am happy to pass along anything I can. Together we can make a difference. Email comments on this blog to berylfishbone@yahoo.com View my past columns at http://www.norwichbulletin.com/section/blogs.

May Plant Swap 2018

Are you an indoor or an outdoor gardener? Do you grow your own herbs in the kitchen or in a patch outside? Do you improve the quality of air inside your home or office with live plants? Are the flowers in your yard finally bursting with scent and color? Do you wish your yard was bursting with scent and color? Are you concerned about our environment, pollination, harmful and helpful bugs?

It is still a little early but Bozrah is hosting the first Plant Swap of the 2018 season on May 5th and on May 6th is the first NORWICH PLANT SWAP.

A Plant Swap is a quick and easy way to give your indoor and outdoor landscaping a quick and easy face lift. Everyone has happy indoor plants that keep having babies. It’s great that your plants are happy but some of us have run out of friends to share our plant babies with. I have the same issues with some of my outdoor plants. Some spread their happy growth and joy beyond the boundaries of where I want them to be and some could benefit by having new friends.

I don’t know enough about plants to be able to give advice, but I can listen to the advice of others really well and am selfish enough to benefit from that listening.

So on Saturday, May 5, 2018 from 10AM – 3PM come to the Spring Vintage Market, 45 Bozrah St, Bozrah CT 06334 or on Sunday, May 6, 2018 come to the Lee Memorial Church, 294 Washington Street, Norwich, CT 06360 from 1 PM – 3 PM. COME with your clippings, your extra seeds, your ‘volunteers’, plants and samples of the plants you are not certain of.

We will have tags so you can identify your plants, extra pots and containers so you can take your choices home. Please bring a lawn chair so you can be comfortable while chatting with other plant and gardening enthusiasts. All plants are free. If you are just starting out and don’t have plants to swap, PLEASE COME. Gardeners adore new people and love to share their bounty of plants with new adopting plant parents. Don’t worry if you miss these there will be more.

Thank you for reading and sharing my history and Norwich Community blog freely with your family or friends or anyone you think might be interested or in a position to take on some of the suggested projects. Don’t hesitate to contact me for further information. I am happy to pass along anything I can. Together we can make a difference. Email comments on this blog to berylfishbone@yahoo.com View my past columns at http://www.norwichbulletin.com/section/blogs.